You are NOT too old, too smart, too independent or too late to bring amazing love into your life…
There are just some things you don't yet know.

You've made a lot of hard choices in your life.
This is a really important one.
Shawn, a recent graduate, describes her Over-40 Love School experience for you.

Join Over-40 Love School.

Finally...choose LOVE. 

Over-40 Love School is different from any program of its kind.

With the respect you deserve, you're taught (and you practice) everything you need to fearlessly find the man who will make you smile for the rest of your life. There is no silly or useless kid stuff. (But there is some fun!) You are part of an intimate group of smart, mature women who, like you, have said "hell yes, I'm finally doing this!" And you're compassionately guided by a Coach who has been where you are, done what you want to do (married at 47!), and knows exactly how to lead you to your love story.

You are part of a community of women who are just like you.

You take your journey alongside an intimate group of women who share your experiences and honor your fears and hopes. (No youngins' allowed! We "get" you!) Imagine...for 9 months you are in a safe, no-judgement zone as you learn the skills, tools, and new perspectives that move you forward -- toward love -- every single day.

You get expert guidance and compassionate truth-telling.

Being single until I was 47 means I know your pain and I have made your mistakes. I give you proven tips, sophisticated tools and tender support. And when you need it, I smack you upside the head. Hey, you're a grownup and I treat you like one.

You get all the tools you need to succeed.

You need confidence and competence to be successful in dating. My proven Find Hope and Find Him System guides you through "unlearning" and shedding the crap that's been in your way for so long. Then you get the tangible training, necessary practice and man-splaining that prepares you to go out and have fun so you can meet, attract and choose Good Men.

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HOW LOVE
SCHOOL WORKS

WHO LOVE
SCHOOL IS FOR

THE PROOF THAT
IT WORKS

WHY YOU CAN
TRUST ME

Since you took ACTION by saying yes to Over-40 Love Challenge, you are invited to grab one of the limited seats in my Over-40 Love School...
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Over-40 Love School is GRADUATE SCHOOL!

Yes, this is a pretty big investment. Take a moment and think about what it’s worth to you to spend the rest of your life being loved by a Good Man.
This isn't a 3-week 'here's how you get a man to ask you out' class. It's not a quick fix, because there really is no such thing. (I think you know that by now.)

You are spending 9 full months, being personally guided by an expert who has done what you want to do, with the support of an awesome community of women you won't find anywhere else in the world.

What have you paid in other parts of your life to learn at a graduate level? You can decide if learning to love and be loved is important enough to make the same type of investment.

I started meeting some quality, fabulous men for the first time in my life and eventually met the love of my life!

WOW, Bobbi made such a difference in my life! In just a short time she moved me from being scared and making bad choices to having fun dating and knowing exactly what (and who) I needed to be happy.

Bobbi is intuitive and so supportive, and she's been where we are. Using her 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him System, and with her guidance and encouragement, I started feeling control of the type of man I wanted and deserved. And I knew exactly how to find him.

Ladies….coaching with Bobbi was the BEST money I have ever spent. This dating thing may sound simple to some…but it wasn't to me. Having Bobbi on your side is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket.

I started meeting quality, fabulous men for the first time ever and eventually met the love of my life!
Thank you so much, Bobbi, from the bottom of my heart. You have given me hope and results. ~~ Karen, Los Angeles, CA.

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This program was worth every penny. I’ve wasted so much money over the years on stupid things, I really wasn’t going to let this be the one thing I should have tried but didn’t.
Now, after meeting several high quality men, I'm in a fantastic relationship with an active, interesting, good-looking man who I'm really enjoying. We met online and I'm hopeful for the potential. I never would have been here without Bobbi. ~Suzanne, Carmel, Indiana

Mother Teresa didn’t walk around complaining about her thighs – she had shit to do.

—Sarah Silverman

Who Love School is For

Here is where most dating coaches would spend a lot of time reminding you how sad and lonely you are.

I’ve been where you are and I respect you more than that.

You know that being single at this time in life can suck. And (when you allow yourself to fantasize about him) you know exactly what’s missing in your life…and what you wish you had.

I was single until I was 47. Yah, we face a lot of unique challenges in our search for love. Here are just a few:

The MEN.

Hot single men with retirement accounts seem nowhere to be found.
You don’t suffer fools gladly…and boy, some men can be fools.
Roles are so unclear. Who pays for dinner and why don’t men take the lead anymore?

Your AGE.

Your body ain’t what it used to be so there’s that getting naked and lack of libido thing.
Using technology to meet men seems impersonal and like a pain in the ass.
You're busy and do you really want to spend your energy dating? It can be exhausting.

Your STRUGGLE.

Your life is good. Why take a chance and mess it up?
One day you long for a partner…and the next you’re quite happy without one. It's confusing.
Failure at this would feel like crap.

Then, of course, there's the (new kind of) ticking clock:

You don’t have TIME to waste falling for the wrong man, laying low or relying on luck.

(Seriously, how much of your success in life has been due to luck?)

The women who succeed in Love School are...
wise...
kind-hearted,
powerful...
smart...
courageous...
open-minded...
determined...
wonderfully imperfect...(don't worry, I'll help you accept that about yourself if you haven't already)
ready to end living life as a single woman once and for all.

You take responsibility for your own happiness and understand that sometimes you need an expert to guide you. You like to learn and maybe even help others do the same. (Isn't it great to be old enough to know that you don't have to know everything anymore?)

It was you who helped me see clearly who I am as a woman and what I wanted in a man.

Hi Bobbi! It was largely because of you and your guidance that I met my husband. You guided our group through the process of clearly defining who we were and what we were looking for. With that clarity, I was able to push away the cobwebs and know with more certainty what was important to me.

I noticed that when I decided to marry him, the decision was made with both my head and my heart. We are as in love and committed as ever, and our first year wedding anniversary is coming up. So thank you because you definitely helped make all of this happen. It was you who helped me see clearly who I am as a woman and what I wanted in a man. Much love to you. ~T.L.

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Here's some truth:

I don't have a magic wand to make this happen for you. It will require your commitment, courage, open mind, and open heart. And it won't happen overnight. You have decades of beliefs, behaviors, feelings, and experiences that make up who you are and where you today.

Here's the good news:

You are in control of whether love enters your life! You get this control IF AND ONLY IF you are ready to own that your singleness is about you. You see...you are the one thing that's consistent in all your dating and relationship drama. That means you can change it. Ready to do that? Now you're in control.

How do I know all this? I've been in your shoes, sister.

Learning to date like a grownup really does lead to love!

"We have been dating now for 9 months, and I keep reflecting on how different this relationship is from others. Lots of loving communication, no sense of having to "play a part", just us being ourselves; it is so lovely and we are crazy about each other!

Everything that you taught me is right. Learning to date like a grownup really does lead to love! He is just wonderful and he makes me feel so special.

We are both excited and curious about the future, which we know will be together. Happy Happy dance!

Thank you again for your support and wisdom. If I had not worked with you I know for sure that I would not have this wonderful relationship. You have had a profound impact on my life, and for that, I will always be grateful." ~ Tracey

I’m here today because I refused to be unhappy. I took a chance.

—Wanda Sykes

Here's How Over-40 Love School Works

You and a very special small group of women join me for nine full months, beginning February 26, 2019!

This gives me time to get to know the real you (not the one with your mask on)... what your life is like now...and how you see life with your gorgeous man. (If you don't yet know don't worry. I'm going to help you dream big!)

Now I zero in on your specific challenges and needs. We get past the surface stuff that you've read in books, learned at seminars, or seen on YouTube. And if you'd like, this also gives you time to make some life-long friends.

My professional background (aka my previous life) is in adult education.

I understand that you already know a lot! It's my job to fill in the gaps. (And honestly, there are likely many.) Also, we learn different ways. In Over-40 Love School we implement a variety of tools, methods and techniques to help you stay engaged, open, and always moving forward.
dream!

Independent learning gives you the foundation to start shifting perspectives, learning new skills, and realizing new opportunities. You also have active exercises to move you further into self exploration and new experiences. (New experiences create new truth!)

Live training and Q&A sessions reinforce what you learned independently and help you dig way deeper. We're going for unvarnished truths and real-life answers. Here is where I and my Client Mentor work directly with you; we answer all your questions, unravel your challenges, give you atta-girls, and push you forward when you need it. There are over 25 trainings and Q&As over 9 months!

Most live trainings take place on Tuesday evenings at 5:30pm PT. All are recorded.

Q&A sessions take place via my Facebook Private Community in various time slots throughout the program.

We get together in person at live retreat June 7-9 in Long Beach, CA. This is a dynamic, insightful, fun gathering with your Love School sisters. Learning, practicing, and hugs are big on the agenda! This is optional. But plan on being there.

Over-40 Love School training follows the Date Like a Grownup 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him system which is what I've used to successfully lead women to love for over 10 years .

Independent training via audio and video gives you the foundation that helps you start shifting perspectives, learning new skills, and realizing new opportunities.

The Active exercises to basic principles and

Between each group session you will have independent work and practice that moves you through the self exploration, new experiences and new learning that leads you to finally find your dream!
indivual independent work and practice that moves you through the self exploration, new experiences and new learning that leads you to finally find your

Now I know - for the first time in my entire life — that there is a Good Man out there for me.

I am 60 and my track record is pretty dismal. Divorced, too many really bad relationships to count, and not any hope of finding anyone.

If you are thinking about doing Bobbi’s Over-40 Love School I would give you only one piece of advice, Trust This Woman.

She is The Buddha, Yoda, All Knowing Sage when it comes to teaching over-40 women what to do to meet The One. Now I know - for the first time in my entire life — that there is a Good Man out there for me.

With the tools, independent work, and real-life advice Bobbi’s given us, I go out and feel completely at ease in my own skin. This is real stuff we are doing that ultimately gets us to a place I was not even aware of. And this place feels So Good.

I was sharing an experience with Bobbi & the class. It was about me emerging as my truest and most confident self. It was a beautiful little story, I was proud to share. Bobbi’s reply to me said it all “Welcome to your new Life!” Thank you Bobbi for kindly leading me there. - Jodi L. (with Stacy; her Love School study partner)

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Overview of our path through Over-40 Love School.

An In-depth Look at the Curriculum

Over-40 Love School is a 9-month program that
begins February 26 2019.

We start at the beginning: with YOU. We end with you out in the world happily dating or in a yummy relationship...armed with everything you need that allows you to meet, attract and choose that one man who makes you happy for the rest of your life.

Module 1

Unpack Your Baggage and Clear the Decks

You have stuff, sister...layers and layers of gnarly negative stuff. We dig it up, name it, and I teach you how to dump it. Within just a first few weeks of starting the program this will rock your world. No bullshit.

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Module 2

Delight in Discovering Grownup Men

With your new understanding of men, the hurt feelings, disappointments and bad choices are a thing of the past! You will start seeing amazing SINGLE grownup men all around you.

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Module 3

Fill Up Your Dating Toolkit

You learn and get to practice proven skills and techniques to help you meet and attract good men...like a grownup. It’s fun and doesn't have to be hard and filled with drama!

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Module 4

Create and Execute Your Dating Plan

No more wishing and depending on luck. Your Dating Plan and Playbook gives you the structure and path hat leads you to meeting men - both out and about and online.

Module 5

Enjoy Dating in a Way to Find Love

Okay...now you’re out dating like a grownup! You have a solid foundation of new confidence, perspectives and facts. You know what you want and how to get it! You have a ton of support and coaching every step of the way. You are on your way to your beautiful grownup love story.

The Live Retreat is included with your Over-40 Love School program.
It's optional, but you want to be there.

LIVE RETREAT!!
2.5 Days of Active Learning, Friendship and Fun...by the beach!
June 7 - June 9, 2019
Los Angeles, California

A dynamic, insightful, fun gathering with your Love School mates and your Date Like a Grownup Coach. (Learning, practicing and hugs are big on the agenda!)

MORE DETAILS COMING BUT PUT IT IN YOUR CALENDAR!!

The best way to learn is to escape your busy life to a safe, comfy environment where you can:

Strengthen your (already) solid foundation by actively processing what you've learned and experienced so far.
Assess your current choices and make new ones in-action with focused support.
Learn and practice concrete skills like body language, flirting, story-telling, on-the-spot decision-making.
Relax and have some ‘me time’ without guilt.
Nurture and build friendships.
Continue to grow and develop.

Workshopping, story telling, feedback circles, demonstration, active practice and more...all to help you reconnect with and assess where you are at this point in your journey and prepare you for the next exciting stage. (Grownup Dating and relationship!)

"My heart's in the right place. I know, cuz I hid it there."

—Carrie Fisher

PLUS this supplemental training and support.

LIVE TRAINING WITH EXPERTS

Participate in live online events with guest experts on complementary areas of your life, including:
- Sex and Intimacy
- Nutrition
- Male/female Communication
- and more.

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LIVE VIRTUAL MAN PANEL

A panel of men are joining us LIVE to share their thoughts and feelings about dating, relationships and sex,

You will be able to ask your own questions and hear directly from these generous men aged in their 40s - 70s.

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DLAGU BOOTCAMP

How do you learn about him without interrogating him? How do you show you're interested and make sure that he can't wait to spend more time with you?

Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp is 4+ hours of independent learning that gives you all this training and more.

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DUMP YOUR LOVE JUNK

This independent study program is a simple and fun way to start clearing your emotional junk so the Very Best You can can go after (and get!) what you want most in your life right now - That One Special Man.

You will receive Day #1 of this program one day after you enroll. Get started right away!

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FIX YOUR MAN PICKER

Would you know a good man if he was sitting right in front of you? If you've been choosing users and losers, FYMP helps you start picking men who make you happy.

This independent study program complements Module 2 with 4+ hours of additional training.

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GET ONLINE, GET NOTICED, FIND LOVE

Online dating is the best way to meet men. But if you're unskilled, have unrealistic expectations, or take things personally...it can be the worst experience of your life.

This 7+-hour independent study program teaches you the A-Zs of online dating.

This is a life-changing decision and we want you to be thoroughly excited to join Over-40 Love School. (It's natural to be nervous.)

AFTER YOU HAVE READ THIS PAGE, if you have specific questions you need answered before you can make your choice, schedule a 20-minute Enrollment Discovery call. I will help you make a decision.

CLICK HERE to schedule a short call to help you decide if Over-40 Love School is the next move for you.

There's No Risk!
You Are Protected with the
Over-40 Love School Guarantee.

To bring forever love into your life you need three simple (but not always easy) things. You get all of this in this program.

You need help learning new perspectives, tools and facts…so you can get out of your own way.

Undervaluing yourself, misunderstanding men, missing opportunity and old, self-sabotaging thoughts and habits are preventing you from finding love. The answer: Objective, expert and honest support and training, so you can start attracting and choosing men who make you happy. If you could find your way to love on your own...you’d be there, right?

You need a proven process so you can take a step toward love every day...with clarity and purpose.

That “I’ll meet a guy naturally” thing that worked in your 20s and 30s doesn’t work now. Taking the right action in an intentional way is how you’re going to bring love into your life.

In the Over-40 Love School Program, I guide you through my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him System. This is a powerful, proven system that gives you tools you need to succeed.

No more trying to guess what you have to do to stop being single or to start attracting the right men. With this new foundation, your fears and doubts fall away. Why? Because you (finally!) know how to take the reins and take charge of this part of your life. Once you know how to do something, you can do it, right?

You need compassion, accountability and cheerleading.

Again, no lies here. Dating at this stage of your life is challenging and finding the right man for you may take time. You need a caring guide and a community of peers who truly understand your feelings, your fears and your dreams. You need a 100% judgement-free zone. (But someone to also call you on your bulls*it when needed.) You need to see POSITIVE RESULTS every day!

Without this it can be easy to get discouraged and give up. Or to go back to your old ways that have never worked. None of us will let you do that, sister. We have your back! Instead of saying: “I can’t do this” you will start to say: “I can’t wait to make this happen!”

MAKE YOUR CHOICE TO...

FINALLY. CHOOSE. LOVE.

This LIMITED offer is your reward for saying YES to Over-40 Love Challenge.

Grab your seat and $1000 discount

Space is very limited.

Registration closes when the enrollment limit is met.

After February 15 the investment

for Love School will be raised $1000!

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I guess ultimately I just want to be someone's cell phone background.

— Whitney Cummings

Why You Can Trust Me

This is where most dating and relationship coaches tell you all about their personal challenges and how they overcame them. Well, I was single until I was 47. You know my struggles because you're living them right now.

How did I overcome being stuck single? You're looking at it! I learned what I teach you in this program.

I can give you a dissertation on all this, but I think my 30-year odyssey from single to married is way TMI.

My commitment is to give you proven tips, sophisticated tools, compassionate support and expert coaching that make the rest of your years your very best…by the side of a man who loves, adores, and excites you.

Here’s a rundown of who I am and why I can be The One Expert who can lead you to your love story :

My commitment is to give you proven tips, sophisticated tools, compassionate support and expert coaching that make your next years your very best years…by the side of a man who loves, adores, and excites you.

These are among the countless publications and media who consider me the expert in helping women over 40 find love.

Oh, and I became a first-time bride in September 2006.

Here we are on our wedding day. (He's pretty cute, isn't he?)

I love this picture because it's what I always dreamed about...to have a man touch me that way, look at me that way...there's absolutely nothing else like it in life.

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You can access the training from Anywhere, Anytime, No Travel Involved! (Except for the live retreat, of course.)

Want Some Proof?

Here’s what just a few of my Over-40 Love School graduates and clients have said…

It will give you the tools to find true love. ~ S.K.

I’ve been able to attract and meet Kings. What a huge change from the unavailable men I was meeting before. ~ J.B.

Bobbi is the perfect combination of caring and no-nonsense. ~ B.M.

Do it! It's worth the investment. You'll finally understand why you are choosing the wrong men. ~ L.D.

Thank you for such an amazing gift. See you at my wedding! ~ J.T.

I was always really looking forward to our sessions. [Bobbi] was able to get to the heart of the matter regardless of how jumbled our thoughts were. ~L.C.

Before Love School I felt I was a fish out of water in the dating world. I hadn't dated in years - and when I tried - I felt overwhelmed. Now I really, really, really believe that I am worthy of love. I know now that I am a catch. And this program allowed me to let go of a past love that was holding me back. ~ S. F.

Tracey J. Sydney, Australia

I think I'm losing my heart, but that's cool. It feels good, not scary! ;-) And I know he feels the same.
Before Over-40 Love School…I had no love life and nothing was going right for many years.
6 months later…after dealing with a few online disappointments I've met a lovely man online. We had a coffee date and then stopped counting by date #7. It’s now 2 months in and we’re going strong! It’s like Bobbi said, when you meet someone at this age and you both know what you want, it can go really fast. And it’s so easy.
Bobbi taught us to stay happy & confident within ourselves and the right guy will see it. Despite my fat tummy and still getting zits, he says he loves me. He acts like it too. I’m taking it slower but I'm so happy. ~ Mecheal -- Western Cape, South Africa

I’m happy to the core. Such a great feeling!
I’m doing pretty fantastic! It’s such a relief to genuinely feel like ME again and not be weighed down by the stress and worries – such a game changer for me and A LOT of it I can attribute to YOU, Ms. Bobbi, and LOVE SCHOOL. I opened that Pandora’s box and dug right into my past and rid myself of previous labels and focused on the authentic ME. It has made such a difference and I’m HAPPY to the core. Such a great feeling!
I’m READY to open the doors and let someone in. And I know that love will finally happen for me. It’s very exciting!! THANK YOU!! ~ Kimberly

Now I know - for the first time in my entire life — that there is a Good Man out there for me.
If you are thinking about doing Bobbi’s Over-40 Love School I would give you only one piece of advice, Trust This Woman.
She is The Buddha, Yoda, All Knowing Sage when it comes to teaching over-40 women what to do to meet The One.
I am fortunate enough to be one of the women in this year’s DLAGU Over-40 Love School. I am 60 and my track record is pretty dismal. Divorced, too many really bad relationships to count, and not any hope of finding anyone.
Now I know - for the first time in my entire life — that there is a Good Man out there for me. ~ Jodi -- Port Hueneme, CA.

Now I know how grownup love feels.
I’ve been dating this amazing man that I met just a couple months after Love School started.
He adores me, treats me like gold and says he wants me to be happy.....all the things Bobbi said a real grownup man says to a woman he’s crazy about. (He has told me what I do that he likes and it is all stuff Bobbi taught us!)
Time will tell, but we are off to an amazing relationship. Now I know how grownup love feels. Thank you for all you do, Bobbi!
~ Jill Plymouth, Min

I finally really really really believe that I am worthy of love.
It was life changing. If you are ready to really look at those things that are holding you back from love, invest in Bobbi’s Love School. You will find a coach who gives a damn - who UNDER-promises and OVER-delivers, as well as a group of women that you will establish a bond with as they help carry you through this process. I have stopped trying to validate myself with other people. I finally really really really believe that I am worthy of love. Oh, and that there really ARE lots of men out there! I am just grateful for the whole experience. ~ Shawn -- Greenbelt, Maryland

He is everything I've ever wanted and dreamed of in a life partner...please tell your clients never give up!

Bobbi, I wanted to let you know that I took your 6-Step course after finding myself divorced at 42 after being married for almost 25 years.

Your coaching was exactly what I needed at the time to gain the confidence that I was lacking to be able to be single and date after 40! I am very excited to say that I took your advice and got on Match and YES met the man of my dreams!!

I am ecstatic to say we are getting MARRIED!! My dream guy (Jim) is giving me the dream wedding that I've always wanted!! He is everything I've ever wanted and dreamed of in a life partner. He is wonderful - so please tell your readers / clients never give up! There are great men out there and yes yes yes they are looking for great mature women - not 20 something girls!!

Keep up the great work you do! You really are helping us!! ~ Kathy

CLAIM YOUR FAST ACTION REWARD
of a $1000 discount

After February 15 your investment

for Love School will be raised $1000.

FAST ACTION!
PAY IN FULL $4997

FAST ACTION!
PAYMENT PLAN $597 X 9 = $5373

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